1) Focusing on food;
to the extent that people begin to worry about eating more then actually
fasting. This also goes along with spending tons of money on Iftaars even
though a person does not need to eat that much food.
2) Making Suhr way
before Fajr. Some people eat Suhr a few hours after Taraweeh or Isha Salah,
this is wrong. It should be eaten closer to the time of Fajr.
3) People don't make
Niyyah (intentions) to fast for Ramadhan. This is something in the heart and
does not need to be verbal. Also it only needs to be done once, at the
beginning of Ramadhan and not every single day.
4) If you find out
late that Ramadhan started, you should stop eating and fast for that day,
making that day up after Ramadhan/Eid ends.
5) Many people don't
think you pray Taraweeh on the first night of Ramadhan (such as tonight). They
believe you pray it after the first day you actually fast. They forget that the
Islamic calender runs on the moon, maghrib is the start of the new day.
6) Many people
believe if you eat or drink on accident this breaks your fast. This is false,
if you do this on accident then you continue fasting and do not need to make up
the day.
7) Some people take
the opinion that if they see someone eating or drinking they should not remind
the person that he/she is fasting. According to Sheikh Bin Baz (ra), this is
incorrect and it is an order from Allah for us to ordain the good and forbid the
evil. Thus we tell the person, because we are forbidding the evil this way.
8) Many sisters
believe they cannot use Hennah while fasting. This is incorrect, they are
allowed to use it during Ramadhan.
9) Some people
believe when you are cooking you cannot taste the food to see if it has the
right spices/flavors. This is false, and allowed in Islam as long as the person
cooking is not eating the food. Rather they can taste it to see if it needs
salt, or more spices.
10) Many people
think you cannot use a Miswak or toothbrush during Ramadhan. This is false, for
the Prophet(saw) used to use a miswak during Ramadhan. Also you CAN use
toothpaste; the reasoning by the scholars is that the Miswak has flavor, thus
toothpaste is okay to use (if you are not eating it).
11) Some people make
the Fajr Adhan early. They do this so people will stop eating before Fajr and
not invalidate their fast. This is wrong and something we should not do.
12) Some people make
the Maghrib Adhan late. They do this so people will start eating late, just
incase Maghrib has not come in yet. Thsi too is wrong and we should not do
this.
13) Many many people
believe you cannot have intercourse with your spouse during the whole month of
Ramadhan. This is false, you cannot do this only during the times when you are
fasting. Between Maghrib and Fajr it is permissable to do.
14) Many women
believe that if their period has just ended and they did not make ghusl, they
cannot fast that day (considering their period ended at night, and they went to
bed without Ghusl, waking up without having a chance to make it). This is
incorrect, if a women has not made Ghusl she can still fast.
15) Many men believe
that if he has had intercourse with his wife and did not make ghusl (similar to
the above) then he cannot fast the next morning. This is also incorrect, for he
can fast even if he has not made Ghusl.
16) Some people pray
Dhur and Asr prayers together during Ramadhan. (mainly in Arab countries) This
is incorrect and should be avoided.
17) Some people
believe you cannot eat until the Muadthin is done calling the Maghrib Adthan.
This is incorrect, as soon as he starts a person can break their fast.
18) Many people
don't take advantage of making dua before they break their fast. This is one of
the three times when Allah accepts a person dua.
19) Many people make
the mistake of spending the later part of Ramadhan prepairing for Eid,
neglecting Ramadhan. This is incorrect and these people lose the concept of
what Ramadhan is about.
20) Many parents do
not let their children fast during Ramadhan (young children). This is somehting
counter productive to a child. By allowing him to fast he will grow up to know
he must do this act.
21) Many people
think Ramadhan is just about not eating and forget about controling their
tempers and watching what they say. In actuality we are supposed to control our
tempers and mouthes even more during Ramadhan.
22) People often
waste their time during Ramadhan. They go to sleep during the day and get
nothing done. We should be taking advantage of this blessed month by doing
extra Ibaadat.
23) Some people
don't go on trips or travel during Ramadhan. They think they have to break
their fast when traveling. This is actually optional, if you want to break your
fast while traveling you can (with making it up later), and if you don't you
can continue fasting.
24) Many people who
are able don't make Itikaaf at the masjid. We should take advantage of our good
health and spend lots of time at the Masjid, expecially the last 10 days of
Ramadhan.
25) Some people
believe they cannot cut their hair or nails during Ramadhan. This is also
false.
26) Some people say
you cannot swallow your spit during Ramadhan. This too is false. However you
cannot swallor mucus that has entered your mouth.
27) Some people say
you cannot use scented oils or perfumes during Ramadhan. This too is false.
28) Some people
believe bleeding breaks the fast. This is not true.
29) Some people
believe if you throw up on accident it breaks your fast. This is not true,
however if you do it intentionally it does.
30) Some people
think you cannot put water in your nose and mouth during wudhu in Ramadhan.
This too is incorrect.
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